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    • Have Your Cake & Eat It Too: Why Couples Swing
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    • Does swinging rescue relationships?
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Swinging Lingo: Must-Know Words & Phrases
May 5, 2016

As it turns out, there’s more words to sexual vocab than “yes baby”, “harder”, and “please don’t put that up there”. Here’s some terms commonly used in the swinging/kink lifestyle – so you don’t have to find out the hard way 😉


bdsm: an overlapping abbreviation of bondage and discipline (BD), dominance and submission (DS), and sadism and masochism (SM)

bi-curious: a heterosexual who is interested in a sexual experience with someone of the same gender

bi-sexual: a person who is sexually attracted to all genders

bukkake: repeated ejaculation on an individual

dead bedroom: a term used to describe a depleted sex life

dom: an abbreviated term for the word (dominator), someone who is the dominant person in a sexual context and/or relationship

double penetration (“DP”): when someone of the female sex has two penises in any bodily orifice at the same time (e.g. anus, vagina, mouth)

fetish: a sexual desire whereby someone is sexually gratified in an atypical way to a certain object, article of clothing, body part, etc. (e.g. panty fetish)

full swap: when a partner/couple is willing to engage in full sexual intercourse with another person or couple

kink: an unconventional sexual fantasy, fetish, or concept; derived from the idea of a “kink” in one’s sexual behaviour

gangbang: when multiple partners (usually 3 or more) engage in sexual intercourse consenually with a single partner

group sex: when more than two people engage in sexual intercourse (e.g. multiple couples having sex in same room)

mfm: a threesome involve two males and one female

fmf: a threesome involving one male and two females

pansexual: someone whose sexual attraction is not restricted by gender, biological sex, or gender choice

polyamory: the concept of having more than one romantic and/or sexual relationship at the same time

sub: an abbreviated word for the term “submissor”; the submissive person in a sexual context and/or relationship

soft swap: when a partner/couple is willing to engage in foreplay (e.g. oral sex) and sexual interactions with another person or couple except for full intercourse

the lifestyle: the modern day term for “swinging”

vanilla: term used for regular people who engage in monogamy and do not swing

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Layla is a 20-something swinger of 4+ years, intrigued by all topics of sexual exploration. When she's not blogging (or swinging!), she can be caught reading, looking up puppy videos on Youtube, or cooking in the nude.

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  • Hi, I’m Layla!

    blonde3

    I’m a curious 20-something who first began swinging 4 years ago. Interested in swinging, sex, kinks or fetish? Me too! I created this blog to discuss naughty antics, experiences, and all things sexy. Poke around & don't be shy!

  • Click here for more!



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